


Wisdom is not what you think
I’m probably not telling you anything you did’t know when I say that wisdom is an important theme for me. I predicted that this would be so around my 27th, when I said to one of my teachers that I wanted to become a wise woman when I grew up. This teacher told me I...1-step guide to happiness
People love roadmaps and step by step guides. The three step guide to a spotless house. Your dream job in six easy steps. Five steps to a stress free life. Magazines, the internet, online courses: they are all infested with multiple step action plans. Always just a...
Your phone battery is empty – how are you going to text?
You need to take care of yourself first before you can take care of anyone else. I tell my mindfulness students this all the time, and all the time I get students who protest. ‘Egotistic’, a 64-year-old participant said not so long ago. A woman. Becauase it’s mostly...Mindfulness or paracetamol?
When I was teaching mindfulness to professionals in social work and counseling a while ago, I got a question about acceptance. One of the students had woken up with a splitting headache that morning. She had prepared for the class, read the literature, and was very...